One of the biggest takeaways from this book for me was the theme of family and the importance of having strong relationships with your children. Throughout the book, we are given examples of how Kayla and Jojo are left motherless and fatherless even though they technically have parents. Leonie, a drug addict, completely neglects them, which is very unsettling as a reader, especially since Jojo had to be the one to take on being a father. In chapter 5 Jojo tells a story about how Leonie killed his beta fish and says “Leonie kills things” which reiterates the fact that she is unfit to be a mother. This element of the story is powerful to me because of how common it is especially in the United States for parents to neglect their children. The neglect from the parents only strengthens Jojo and Kayla’s relationship. Jojo understands that Leonie can not take care of them and when Kayla is sick Jojo explains that Leonie “doesn’t know how to make medicine from plants, and I worry for Kayla”. This quotation explains how Leonie is a neglectful mother and how much Jojo cares for his sister.
I find it illuminating how Leonie seems to know how to be a good mother but refuses to. I think the reason she despises Kayla is because of how much Kayla looks up to her older brother. Maybe this reminds Leonie of how she lost her brother, Given. Seeing Kayla and Jojo could remind her of her and her brother and it could develop feelings of guilt Leonie has deep down about being with Michael and seeing flashes of Given. I truly think that at this point in Leonie’s life she knows it is too late for her to become a good mother so there is no point in changing anything. She resents her children because they resent her and it reminds her of how she failed to raise them properly. Leonie explains to Michael that “if we had another baby, we could get it right”. I interpreted this quote as her feeling guilty about how horrible of a mother she was with Jojo and Kayla so she wants to redeem herself by becoming a good mother for another child. This quote interested me because it could also be interpreted as her not liking the children she raised which is unfair because the kids have done nothing wrong and are arguably the most moral characters in the novel.

